Monday, May 12, 2008

Mother's Day



HAPPY BELATED MOTHER'S DAY!



So how you guys celebrate mother's day yesterday? Hehe~

For us, we bought a bundle of pink roses and i wrote a poem for our beloved mummy.





At night we brought her to Restoran Tiang Seng Pulau Ketam Steamboat which is located in Jalan Kuchai Lama.

Then aunt Ivy suddenly popped out a question:

"If your mum and your wife drop into the sea at the same time and both of them don't know how to swim, which one will you save first?"

I guess this is a common question many wives would have asked their husband before, below are our answers:-

Me:"Throw a life buoy to the wife and i will save my mummy."

Aunt Julie:"Of course save mother first because we only have one and only mum in this world whereas we can still marry other girls." (joke)

Youngest Brother:"I will save my mum first, why? Because my wife is pretty and attractive enough to let other guys to sacrifice their lives for her."

Father:"I will save the person which is nearer to me."

Aunt Ivy:"If i drop into the sea, i will ask my husband to save his mum first because i will grab and pull his hair to keep myself floating, so don't worry about me ."

She said my father answer is the correct one, if i am in that situation, i am sure i will save the nearest person too.

My aunt then asked three of us a question:

"Tell me three reasons why you love your mum?"

This question really made us stunned for a while, we looked at each other but no one answered her, she stared at me and said:"Elaine, you answer first."

I just said whatever that came out from my mind:

"Firstly, she is the one who brought us to this wonderful world. Second, she pampers us so much and provides whatever we want. Third, she treats everyone of us more important than herself."

My youngest bro gave funny answers again:

"First, because she is our mother. Second, because she loves us so we love her too. Third don't know."

My eldest bro said:"My answers are the same as my sister." Sweat...>.<"

My aunt said if we wanted to point out the reasons, there will be countless reasons. Actually my eldest brother really loves our mum very much, is just that he doesn't know how to express himself.

Communication is the best way to strengthen the relationship between parents and children, at least we need to spend half an hour per day to talk to our parents, just like talking to our friends.

She said Asian people like to keep all in heart but actually this is a bad habit, we need to tell our mum how much we love her, let her know how much we appreciate her before we miss the chance to say all these. Yes! It's very true.

Have you guys tell your mum how much you love her? =)

34 comments:

Akira 思胜 said...

嗨, 我又来了... 嘻嘻...

你们为你妈妈庆祝的母亲节, 也是很棒啊... 你妈妈肯定是开心到不得了了... 嘻嘻...

关于那游泳救人的问题, 我会选择就最近的人... 可是我妈妈曾经对我说过, 要我去救老婆先, 因为她希望我得到幸福, 她宁愿牺牲也不要看到我为了老婆救不到而伤心一辈子... 当我听到这答案时, 我很感动! 差点哭出来了... 过后我加了一句笑话, "妈, 我教你怎样游泳, 下次发生这样的事情, 我就不用犹豫要救谁先咯.." 哈哈, 我妈当时笑了...

Akira 思胜 said...

我比较少对妈妈说"我爱你", 因为我对家人的爱会比较内向咯... 不过要我用字语写出来的话, 那就没问题咯...

嗯, 我要谢谢我妈妈把我带来这世界, 那九个月怀胎的日子真是辛苦她了... 还有, 要谢谢她把我养大, 而且给了我们家庭的温暖...

妈, 我爱你哦...

iamlz said...

[Chobits] Hahah..ur eldest brother is shy to confess ya? Sure because wana act 'man'. Heheh.. Another good daughter here o~ Did u say 'I love you' to ur mum too? If I did, guess my mum will feel 'geli' though she's happy. Heheh..

[Akira] Wahh..u confess here, ur mum will see or not? Confess in ur blog mar..heheh!

Chobits said...

Akira,
你的妈妈很伟大哦!
天下所有的母亲就是那么伟大,牺牲自己成全孩子。
不过你在这表白,你的妈妈不会知道的。
如果以后有机会看到你妈妈,我会帮你转告的,哈哈~

Limzhi,
Yupe, my both brothers are shy. I am not a very good daughter, sometimes will make mum upset too..i hope i won't repeat the same mistakes anymore. I did tell her i love you but that was long time ago hehe~ But now i confess in a paper ma, so same la and won't feel so geli hehe~ ^^

Anonymous said...

wow!!
ur family r creative enuff^^
i like all dier answers.....
especially ur funny brother
n bout de swimming question,ur mum answer it well too^^
i think ur mum must be smiling when she hear de ans from all of u!
ur family seem like veli sweet...i love it too much~

Akira 思胜 said...

哈哈, 没问题啊, 你就帮我转告吧... 嘻嘻... 我相信你一定会讲的咯, 哈...

Anonymous said...

Oops...regarding to that swimming stuff,i think my mom and my wife will together save my lfe first...I can't swim...sweat...

tsuey miin said...

errrr..actually this is a lame question...=.=

i heard many answer b4..one of it is:i will save my mum 1st,and then die together with my wife=.=

actually this ques is no answer wn..>"<

happi belated mother's day.

Dragon said...

never tell my mum. dont know how to say also. hahaha.

about the question, agree with what sai ling said. hahaha.

傻鱼 said...

爱要怎么说出口??
我说不出啦。。

我想,我谁也救不到,因为我不会游泳哦。。

Anne said...

eh....tis question ah.......hard to answer leh...pluz~ i dun no how to swim~how to save ne? hm....is ok~ i also jump in~ both side no need to save~ haha~^^


but the final answer will do is..save the nearest one~^^
& u were rite~Asian people like to to word inside the heart..nvr express out...but if i express out my mom sure geli de...^.^

GeOk kEE好きな♡ うち said...

很让人深思的一篇文章,他们的答案都是出自心中的爱。
我觉得我会救我母亲,因为她怕水,不会游泳。

迷迭香 said...

love is unconditional one lar...
must appreciate what she has sacrifies for us...

abt the saving who first question...
let me go learn how to swim and save ppl first ya... if not all tenggelam sama sama XD

阿Don said...

happy mothers's day =)


ps#如果你跑赢我,我就设计一个你的出来,哈哈

Somewhere in Singapore said...

Happy Belated Mother Day to your mother...

wawen said...

HAPPY MOTHER DAYS..
你的阿姨的话真得很对,所以一定要学会表达我们对父母的爱..我已经开始在表达了!虽然我们的父母会说你那条经不对了,可是这也是他们要掩饰自己的方式,其实他们明白的!

紫绵羊的心与情 said...

happy mother 's day (belated o~~~~)
i also dun know swimming,so how to rescue??!!

Chobits said...

S型•樱戈子,
Hehe, thanks for loving my family style and praising them, so how about your own family? Yupe,you are right, my mum was smilling all the way. ^^

Akira 思胜,
Haha..really want me to tell? I better print your answer out and pass it to her, scare i miss somehting important hehe~

liciece,
LOL, your answer is funny, don't worry, just make sure when you drop into the sea i am around so that i can save you, hehe~

Sai Ling,
You are right, this is a lame question but i am more concern about the answers hehe~ ^^
Haha, aiyo, if the guy can save his mum then sure he can save his wife too ma, no need to die together, so sad..

Anne,
Haha~ Don't jump, don't jump, i will help you save your mummy and wife hehe~ ^^
Ya, hope Asian people be more open to express their feeling before it's too late. Your mum will be glad won't feel geli de la~

Dragon,
Sweat...>.<" Please focus on the answer and not the question ma..T_T

傻鱼,
如果说不出口,可以尝试用文字表达,这样可以避免尴尬,也可以将平时不敢讲的话告诉妈妈~
不用紧,可以叫其他人救他们的~ ^^

GeOk kEE好きな♡ うち,
嘿嘿~看来你很孝顺吗吗哦!
好孩子!给你奖励~ 爱的飞吻! MUaks~

迷迭香,
Yupe, we must appreciate what mum did for us, actually the most noble people in the world is our mum, no one can replace their place~ >.< Don't worry, i will teach you how to swim hehe~

SuwaN,
Happy Belated Mother's Day to you too! Thank you. Ohh?? Really? Tell me what is your fastest record in 10km, if i beat you, promise to make me one k? I am so so so happy, yeah~

Somewhere in Singapore,
Thanks for your wishes, happy belated mother's day for my mum only? How about me? Haha~ Happy Belated Mother's Day to you and your whole family ya.

wawen,
你不用讲,我也知道你爱妈妈的方式有多够力.大家学一学这个雯,她竟然说了一声"妈妈,我爱你"后,强吻妈妈.是不是很恐怖咧?

紫绵羊的心与情,
Happy Belated Mother's Day to you too! Don't worry, i will save your mum and wife for you, hehe~
Actually i don't know how to save people haha~ I know how to swim only. =P

Akira 思胜 said...

哈哈, 没问题啊... 就照你的意思去做吧... 嘻嘻... 我相信你可以好好为我表达的... 哈...

小海狗 said...

大家都为自己的母亲庆祝。。。。
我也一样。。。。
我邻居却不同了。。。

记得来看看我的blog里的恐怖事件!!!
你有遇到过吗???

Anonymous said...

huhu~
actually my family is a lovely family too
chit-chat n fool around everyday...
quite sweet cs js full of happiness^^

Somewhere in Singapore said...

Happy Belated Mother Day to u also... :)

Anonymous said...

Really?Then I'll be more safe. :D

Mrs Chong said...

i tell my mum that every single day..cuz???hahaa...alwiz make her angry..then have to pujuk back.. T.T So teruk la me..

But ya la, we 3 sisters very pandai manja one cuz I am brought up in a single parent family. So our mum is the closest person to us.

Just the other day while in the lift, I suddenly tell my second sister, " My mummy very pandai sew baju one. All my baju buttons ar, lubang ar and my toy koyak also my mum sew one." Then my sis also say "Ya, my mummy also very pandai sew one. My working baju all she help me alter although a bit tak cantik."

To clear your confusion, we are of the same mum. Saja want to say that cuz I saw my mum sewing my sis's pants before we leave house and no, our mum were not with us. Siao one, saja want to say. Whenever I'm sick, if my mum is around, i'll feel better. Weird huh?sense of security kua..

阿Don said...

faster record dunno.. but can run together.. if u win me .. really really..

还是..你在我到达后十分钟之内能到达..我就..哈哈哈

Chobits said...

Akira,
真的要啊?我表达能力很差的,等下你妈妈误会我的意思就惨了。

名叫羊羽的路人,
邻居怎样不同?没帮忙庆祝?
哈哈~鬼故事哦?我一定去看!
等我~

S型•樱戈子,
Hehe, i am so glad you have such a sweet family too! Some more like to fool around oh? Must be very happy and laughing everyday. =)

Somewhere in Singapore,
You are welcome~ So how's life in singapore?

liciece,
Hey, cannot be so dependent, what if one day i am not around? Who is going to safe them ler? Must learn one day ar.

Ping Ping,
Wa~appreciate your long reply. When i read about your story i also feel touch and feel a sense of secure. Mummy always give us unconditional love, she always do things for us without us noticing. Really noble!^^ Wish 3 sisters and your mum happy and healthy always.

SuwaN,
Ok, you said wan ar!! If i reach there within 10 minutes later than you, then you make one for me ok?? Hehe~^^

迷迭香 said...

make sure ah...
if not both of us sink together XD

Anonymous said...

haha...i'm tyring to be rich as soon as possible in order to hire some body guard who can swim... ;p

Beverly's Secret said...

Yeah, you're right...
Asians seldom express their inner feeling...

I practiced super hard on this part by saying "I miss you" and "Take good care" to my mum everyday! It turns out well though ^^

Vicℒ ♥ said...

haha..it doesn't matter what comes out of what we say..it matters what you did to them when we are alive right!!

Yea,it is hard to express sometimes..but..it is not hard to make them happy..

well, some of my friends really can't express much but wht they do is just give a hug to their Mum..at least they won't complain haha..
& mum will know that we as a children..love them very much.

One Life, One Mother, one Father, & One heart.

donald said...

这种情况我还是觉得...当然是就近原则拉,所以说你爸觉得是称职的救生员XD

Bombomba said...

poem?
can share the poem with us?
after graduate from school we seldom bought flower for mom liao, i think once a while should do so...

No matter how flower always was the greatest present for female^^

Geralvin said...

Why is pink roses instead carnation?
Do come to my blog and have a visit when u're free.

Barbie said...

I'm not a kind of introvert person, but on Mother's Day, I just couldn't find the courage to say " I love you" to my mom :(

I seriously love ur blog's title, Realization of a Dream! I am so much into fairy tale, so the word dreams has partly influenced my life.

You have a good day, Chobits :)